Sister, survival mode is not your forever.
You’ve carried too much for too long. The people-pleasing, the overthinking, the guilt every time you say “no.” You’ve prayed, read the devotionals, even tried therapy, and yet the same triggers, shame, and lies keep circling back.
Let me tell you this: You’re not broken. You’re unhealed. And unhealed wounds don’t need a bandage; they need a Healer.
That’s what this space is: a sacred, strategic, Spirit-led process where you stop apologizing for your boundaries, stop managing trauma with surface solutions, and finally walk free.
The Heart of The 1:1 Christian Women’s Empowerment Coaching (And Why It Matters for You)
This isn’t about slapping on a Bible verse and telling you to “just trust God.” And it’s definitely not about hustling harder or pretending you’re fine.
This is about:
Healing the root of the pain you’ve been carrying - so that you stop managing the same cycles and finally feel free from what’s been holding you back.
Rebuilding your identity on truth, not trauma - so that you can know who you are in Christ and live unapologetically confident in that truth.
Learning how to respond with clarity instead of reacting in chaos - so that you can protect your peace and show up in any relationships with calm authority.
Walking with boldness, peace, and unshakable God-confidence - so that you can lead your life, family, and calling without guilt, fear, or shame weighing you down.
I don’t offer pep talks. I walk women through transformation because I’ve lived it too.
My Story (Why I Walk With Women Like You)
Hi, I’m Darcie.
At 7 years old, I was told my father was a pedophile… right on the playground. What followed was years of chaos, shame, and carrying burdens no little girl was meant to hold.
For a long time, I thought my worth was buried under betrayal. I wore the mask of perfection, the armor of strength, and the weight of “I’m fine.” But behind it? I was fractured.
Until God showed me: Your story isn’t your wound. It’s your witness.
I chose to heal. I chose to break generational cycles. I chose to rise.
And now? I help women like you do the same.
The SOAR Life Transformation Framework: The Path to Healing and RisinG
A trauma-informed, faith-led method to break generational cycles and rise in identity-led leadership.
This is a proven process that rebuilds you from the inside out. The SOAR© Framework is where women stop pretending, start healing, and rise with God-given confidence.
S – See It for What It Is
"You can’t heal what you’re still hiding."
The first step toward freedom is honesty. We shine a light on the patterns you’ve been minimizing, spiritualizing, or carrying silently, whether it’s generational shame, survival-mode people pleasing, or the trauma of being the “strong one.”
You’ll walk away with:
Clarity around your emotional triggers and survival patterns.
The ability to observe your story without shame or self-condemnation.
A new lens that sees wounds as places God is waiting to heal, not proof of your weakness.
As a little girl, I saw everything but was told to say nothing. For years, silence became my survival. But I learned that when you dare to see the truth of your story, healing begins. That’s why this step matters, I know firsthand that seeing clearly is the first step to sovereignty.
O – Own What Comes Next
"You didn’t choose what happened, but you get to choose what happens now."
This is all about holy authority, and not about blame. We honor the ways you’ve adapted to survive, and we choose new ways that help you thrive.
You’ll walk away with:
Freedom from carrying guilt, shame, and burdens that were never yours.
Discernment to tell the difference between God’s conviction and toxic conditioning.
Permission to disrupt old cycles and boldly declare, “This stops with me.”
When I told my mom to leave the abuse, it was one of the hardest but holiest moments of my life. I didn’t cause the pain, but I chose to step into truth. That’s what ownership looks like, not blame, but authority. And I’ll teach you how to walk in that same authority.
A – Anchor New Boundaries
"Peace requires protection."
It’s not enough to heal on the inside; you need to protect that healing on the outside. In this phase, we create emotional, relational, and spiritual boundaries that allow peace to flourish.
You’ll walk away with:
Sacred boundaries you can set without guilt or over-explaining.
Emotional safety tools that calm your nervous system instead of keeping you in fight-or-flight.
Reorganized priorities that align your energy, relationships, and time with your God-given calling.
I spent years pretending, hiding, and absorbing chaos that wasn’t mine. When I finally set boundaries, I discovered peace wasn’t something I had to chase; it was something I could choose. Anchoring boundaries changed everything for me, and it will for you, too.
R – Rise in Authority
"You are not who they said you were. You are who God called you to be."
This is the moment where survival ends, and leadership begins. You rise with unshakable clarity, God-given confidence, and the authority to live fully as the woman you were created to be.
You’ll walk away with:
The courage to take up space without masks, striving, or self-sabotage.
The confidence to lead in your family, career, or community from a healed identity.
Boldness to make decisions aligned with truth, not trauma.
Deep spiritual authority that anchors you in God’s promises and equips you to walk in freedom.
For too long, I let my father’s shame define me. Today, I walk in freedom as a woman who reclaims her story and speaks life into others. Rising in authority isn’t theory for me, it’s my testimony. And it can be yours too.
This is the work. This is the way out of survival mode. This is how you SOAR.
The Freedom Waiting for You on the Other SidE
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Renewed Mindset
Trade toxic self-talk for clarity, peace, and resilience.
No more spiraling in guilt, shame, or “what ifs.” You’ll learn how to silence toxic self-talk and replace it with God’s truth, so you can live with clarity, peace, and resilience, even when life gets messy.
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Deeper Faith
Anchor your identity in who God says you are, not who your trauma told you to be.
Your identity won’t be built on old wounds anymore. Instead, you’ll anchor yourself in who God says you are, not who your trauma or critics told you to be. This is about walking in unshakable faith and knowing you are fully seen, fully loved, and fully free.
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Healthy Relationships
Set fierce, guilt-free boundaries. Build authentic, life-giving connections.
Imagine setting boundaries without guilt, saying “no” without explanation, and finally creating relationships that feel life-giving, not draining. You’ll learn how to protect your peace, honor your heart, and connect more authentically with the people you love.
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Confidence in Your Purpose
Step boldly into your calling with courage instead of fear.
No more second-guessing or apologizing for who you are. You’ll step boldly into your calling with courage, conviction, and clarity, so you can stop hiding and start leading the life God designed you for.
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Practical Tools for Daily Living
Regulate emotions, handle triggers, and make intentional choices that align with your values.
Triggers won’t control you anymore. You’ll walk away with strategies to regulate your emotions, handle stress, and make intentional choices that align with your values, so that peace becomes your new normal, not just a prayer request.
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A Big-Sister-in-Christ Mentor
Because sometimes you just need someone who says, “I get it. Let’s do this together.”
Because sometimes you don’t just need a coach, you need someone who gets it. Someone who’s walked through the fire and can say with full authority: “Sister, you’re not broken. You’re brave. And you don’t have to do this alone.”
This isn’t surface-level coaching. This is the transformation you’ve been praying for.
Your next step? Book your FREE Clarity Call today and let’s uncover what freedom looks like for you.
Your Journey to Healing (Step by Step)
Step 1: Book Your Free Clarity Call
This is not a sales pitch, I promise you, it’s a safe space to breathe. On this call, we’ll uncover:
Where you’re stuck and why it feels so heavy.
What you’re truly longing for beneath the surface (peace, freedom, confidence, healing).
Whether this mentorship is the aligned next step for you.
You’ll leave the call with fresh clarity, even if we don’t work together.
Step 2: Build Your SOAR Framework
This is where strategy meets soul. Together, we’ll rebuild your inner operating system so it’s rooted in truth, not trauma. You’ll learn how to:
Anchor yourself in God’s promises, so your worth isn’t shaken by people’s opinions.
Create rhythms and boundaries that protect your energy and honor your priorities.
Bring clarity to your calendar, your commitments, and even your relationships.
By the end, you’ll have a personalized framework that gives you both stability and freedom.
Step 3: Rise Into Freedom
Healing doesn’t happen overnight, but you don’t have to walk it alone. With ongoing 1:1 support, you’ll:
Break patterns of self-sabotage and step into unshakable confidence.
Learn how to respond with wisdom instead of reacting in chaos.
Build healthier relationships where you’re seen, respected, and valued.
Cultivate bold faith so you can walk in peace no matter what life throws at you.
This isn’t just about talking freedom. This is about actually living it daily, deeply, unapologetically.
Book your FREE Clarity Call with me today and let’s begin building the roadmap to your freedom.
The Movement You’re Joining
This is about a movement, not just about 1:1 coaching
Her Unstoppable Grace™ is a rising of women who are done surviving and ready to lead their lives with holy confidence. When you step into this space, you’re not only choosing your healing, you’re joining a sisterhood of women who:
Lead with unwavering confidence, even when fear tries to whisper.
Understand and embrace their worth, even on the days it feels shaky.
Feel free to be imperfect, knowing they are loved and enough as they are.
Stand in peace, even when their choices don’t please everyone else.
Focus more on who they’re becoming than on what has tried to hold them back.
This is bigger than coaching; it’s about creating a ripple effect that breaks cycles, heals generations, and raises women who rise in truth and authority.
When you say yes, you’re not just choosing transformation for yourself; you’re stepping into a movement of women who are changing the story for every daughter, sister, and generation to come.
Your story of freedom could be next.
Frequently Asked Questions: Real Questions You’re Probably Asking
Still got questions? The best way to find out if this is for you is to experience it. That’s what my Free Clarity Call is all about.
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Good. Fear means this matters. The truth is, anything that has the power to change your life will feel uncomfortable at first. Courage doesn’t mean you don’t feel afraid; it means you rise anyway.
You don’t have to face fear alone. Coaching gives you a safe, Spirit-led space to process it, take small brave steps, and actually see your courage grow in real time. That’s where transformation begins.
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Yes. Every session is anchored in God’s Word, prayer, and Spirit-led wisdom. But it’s also incredibly practical. This is not about throwing random verses at your pain, it’s about learning how to:
Apply biblical truth to your triggers and trauma.
Set boundaries without guilt, while staying grounded in grace.
Build confidence in who God says you are, not what others expect you to be.
A unique blend of faith + strategy. You’ll walk away with both spiritual authority and practical tools you can use in your everyday life.
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Those can be powerful tools, and many women find value in them. But this coaching is different because:
It’s not about more information; it’s about actual transformation.
We won’t just talk about the wound, we’ll invite God into it and rewrite the story with truth.
You won’t be doing it alone. You’ll have accountability, prayer covering, and step-by-step strategies to apply in real time.
You won’t just leave with insights, you’ll leave with change you can feel in your thoughts, habits, relationships, and faith walk.
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You might never “feel” ready. But here’s a clue: if you’re tired of carrying the same pain, repeating the same cycles, or saying “next year will be different” only to feel stuck again, then this is your sign.
What’s in it for you? Relief. Release. Renewal. When you step into coaching, you stop waiting for change to magically happen and start creating it with guidance, support, and God at the center.
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You can’t fail here. Healing is about presence and not about performance. Some weeks will feel like big breakthroughs, other weeks will be about showing up and breathing through the process. Both are progress.
A mentor who gets it, doesn’t judge, and walks with you at your pace. You’ll discover that even the “slow” weeks move you closer to lasting freedom.
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Every woman’s journey is unique, but clients often walk away with:
Renewed peace of mind and emotional clarity.
Bold confidence in setting and keeping boundaries.
Healthier, more honest relationships.
A stronger faith rooted in identity, not insecurity.
A deep sense of freedom they never thought was possible.
And most importantly, the ability to stop “just surviving” and start actually living with joy, confidence, and clarity.
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Sister, even Wonder Woman takes her bracelets off at night. Strength without healing is just survival. But strength anchored in truth? That’s freedom.
This is your moment. This is your invitation. You don’t need to hustle harder, pray prettier, or fake it anymore. You need a mentor who’s lived it, and a God who’s already written your victory.
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